How to Start Cross Stitch: Complete Beginner's Guide
Cross stitch looks complicated. It isn't. If you can make an X, you can cross stitch.
This guide covers everything a complete beginner needs: supplies, how to start, basic technique, and finishing your first piece.
## What You Need
### Essential Supplies
**Aida fabric** — The gridded fabric used for cross stitch. Beginners should use 14-count (14 stitches per inch). The holes are clearly visible and easy to count.
**Embroidery floss** — DMC is the standard brand. Each colour has a number. You'll use 2 strands at a time (the thread comes as 6 strands twisted together — separate 2).
**Tapestry needle** — Size 24 for 14-count Aida. Blunt tip so you don't split the fabric threads.
**Embroidery hoop** — Optional but highly recommended. Keeps fabric taut and makes stitching easier. 6" is a good starting size.
**Scissors** — Small, sharp embroidery scissors for cutting thread.
**Pattern** — A chart showing where each stitch goes. Generate one free at [xstitchify.com/text](/text/) or [xstitchify.com/upload](/upload/).
### What About Kits?
Beginner kits include everything: fabric, thread, needle, pattern, sometimes a hoop. Good for your first project. After that, buying supplies separately is cheaper and lets you choose your own projects.
## How to Start Cross Stitch
### Step 1: Prepare Your Fabric
1. **Cut to size** — Leave 3 inches of margin on all sides of your pattern area for framing later
2. **Find the centre** — Fold fabric in half both ways, mark the centre point with a pin
3. **Prevent fraying** — Either zigzag the edges with a sewing machine or apply masking tape
4. **Mount in hoop** — Place fabric over the inner hoop, push outer hoop over, tighten the screw
### Step 2: Prepare Your Thread
1. **Cut a length** — About 18 inches (arm's length). Longer tangles, shorter wastes time re-threading
2. **Separate strands** — Gently pull apart 2 strands from the 6-strand bundle
3. **Thread the needle** — If it's tricky, use a needle threader or fold the thread over the needle
### Step 3: Start Stitching
**Where to begin:** Start near the centre of your design. This ensures it ends up centred on your fabric.
**How to anchor (no knots!):**
1. Leave a 1-inch tail of thread at the back
2. Make your first few stitches, catching the tail under them
3. The tail is now secured and won't pull through
**How to end:**
1. Turn fabric over
2. Weave needle under 4-5 existing stitches on the back
3. Clip the thread close
## How to Make a Cross Stitch
Each X covers one square on the fabric.
### The Basic Stitch
1. **Come up** at bottom-left corner of the square (push needle from back to front)
2. **Go down** at top-right corner (front to back)
3. **Come up** at bottom-right corner
4. **Go down** at top-left corner
That's one stitch: ⧵ then ⧸ = X
### The Row Method (Faster)
When stitching multiple squares in a row:
1. Stitch all the bottom-left to top-right diagonals: ⧵⧵⧵⧵
2. Come back, stitching all the top-left to bottom-right: ⧸⧸⧸⧸
This is faster and creates neater backs.
### Direction Matters
**Always make your top stitch go the same direction.** Either all ⧸ on top, or all ⧵ on top — pick one and stick with it throughout the entire project. This makes the finished piece look consistent.
## Reading a Cross Stitch Pattern
Patterns are grid charts where each square = one stitch.
**Symbols:** Different symbols represent different thread colours. A key tells you which DMC number each symbol means.
**Colours:** Some patterns show actual colours instead of symbols. Easier to read, harder to print in black and white.
**Centre marks:** Lines or arrows indicating the centre of the design. Match these to your fabric centre.
**Grid lines:** Every 10 squares gets a heavier line for easier counting.
Our patterns at [xstitchify.com](/upload/) include:
- Colour-coded grid
- Symbol grid for printing
- DMC colour key
- Stitch count
- Finished size
## Counting Tips
Miscounting is the most common mistake. These help:
**Use a ruler or sticky note** — Move it down the pattern as you progress, covering completed rows.
**Count stitches, not holes** — The number of stitches = number of Xs, not the holes in the fabric.
**Work from the centre** — Always count outward from a known reference point.
**Grid your fabric** — Use a water-soluble pen to draw a grid every 10 squares matching the pattern's grid lines. Wash out when done.
## Common Beginner Mistakes
### 1. Knots
Don't use them. They create bumps and can show through the fabric. Use the loop start or tuck-under method.
### 2. Thread Too Long
Long thread tangles, frays, and knots. Arm's length maximum.
### 3. Tension Too Tight
Don't pull stitches so tight they pucker the fabric. The X should lie flat.
### 4. Tension Too Loose
Don't leave loops either. Consistent, gentle tension throughout.
### 5. Skipping Around
Finish one area before jumping to another across the fabric. This keeps your back neater and uses less thread.
### 6. Wrong Count Fabric
14-count is beginner-friendly. Higher counts (18, 28) have smaller holes and require better eyesight. Don't start with linen.
## Finishing Your First Piece
### Washing
If you handled the fabric a lot (you did), wash it:
1. Lukewarm water, drop of washing up liquid
2. Gently swish, no rubbing
3. Rinse thoroughly
4. Roll in clean towel to remove water
5. Lay flat to dry
### Ironing
1. Place face-down on a clean towel
2. Cover with a thin cloth
3. Iron on medium heat
4. The towel prevents flattening the stitches
### Framing
Options:
- **Embroidery hoop** — Clean, simple, modern
- **Picture frame** — Professional look
- **Pillow or ornament** — Functional finish
For hoop framing:
1. Centre your work in the hoop
2. Tighten firmly
3. Trim excess fabric to 1"
4. Glue or stitch the fabric to itself at the back
## Your First Project Ideas
### Keep It Simple
**Good first projects:**
- A single letter or word
- Small heart or star
- Simple geometric pattern
- 3-inch square design
**Too ambitious for first project:**
- Full-size sampler
- Portrait from photo
- Anything over 50 stitches in any direction
### Free Starter Pattern
Generate your first pattern:
1. Go to [xstitchify.com/text](/text/)
2. Type "HI" or your initial
3. Select Block font (simplest)
4. Choose one colour
5. Download PDF
This creates a tiny pattern perfect for learning.
## Frequently Asked Questions
### How do I start a cross stitch pattern?
Find the centre of your fabric and the centre of your pattern. Start stitching there, working outward. This ensures your design ends up centred.
### How do I count a cross stitch pattern?
Each square on the pattern = one X stitch on your fabric. Count squares on the pattern, make the same number of stitches. Use grid lines every 10 squares to keep track.
### What size needle for 14-count Aida?
Size 24 tapestry needle. It passes through the holes without splitting the fabric threads.
### How many strands of floss should I use?
2 strands for standard cross stitch on 14-count Aida. This gives good coverage without being bulky.
### Why is my cross stitch puckering?
Thread tension is too tight. Pull stitches gently until the X lies flat against the fabric, no tighter.
### Can I create my own cross stitch pattern?
Yes. Use a pattern generator — upload any image at [xstitchify.com/upload](/upload/) or create text at [xstitchify.com/text](/text/). The pattern downloads as a PDF with everything you need.
## Next Steps
Once you've completed a simple first project:
1. **Try a longer quote** — Use the text generator
2. **Try an image** — Convert a photo with our pattern maker
3. **Experiment with colours** — Try rainbow mode
4. **Increase complexity** — More colours, larger designs
## Ready to Start?
**[Create a Simple Text Pattern →](/text/)**
Type a word, download the pattern, and start stitching today.